RAK is short for Random Acts of Kindness. This is an idea that was started with a single flower. A few years ago I was driving with my friend Mike and a few others downtown London when we were stopped at a light. I looked at the car beside us which the sole occupant was a girl in her 20s. She looked kind of bored, and not really happy. In our car I had a flower I had just picked randomly (I really can't recall why I would have had it). So while the stoplight was red, I jumped out of our car, knocked on her car's window and proceeded to give her the flower while only saying (while smiling), "This is for you". Then I walked away. Thank goodness she actually opened her window and didn't think I was some freak trying to steal her car. When I was walking away I caught her smiling and looking slightly bewildered. That was the first act that sparked our idea of Random Acts of Kindness.
Mike and I have been talking about this idea since then. The basic concept is to randomly help someone or make someone's day happier by doing something and doing it totally anonymously. Essentially doing good unto others with no thought of reward. It seems in our present day this is an odd concept for most people.
This past Christmas eve a group of us went to a retirement home that is near my parents house around 10pm with a box of small gifts (they were just fun gifts of chocolate, candles, etc all wrapped up fun) for all the nurses who had to work there overnight. We handed them out without telling the nurses who we were, but just thanked them for working that night away from their families. We got a lot of surprised looks and smiles (and heard that one of the nurses started crying because she was so shocked by our idea), but hopefully made their night a bit better. We spent maybe $40 total for 15 gifts.
I'm not posting this to gratify myself in any way. This is just to get ideas going in whoever reads this. We think the world would be better off if more people just randomly did an act of kindness for no personal gain. I hope to post some of our activities on here when I can think of doing so, just to keep people informed of what could be going on.
What spurred this post was my morning. We had a great snowstorm last night, got over a foot of snow in some places. After shoveling my driveway and getting dani off to work and walking molly, I jumped into my nice new 4 wheel drive and drove around our area (mostly just to play with the 4x4), but I happened to see 2 cars stuck and helped push them out, then saw an older lady shoveling her drive and just walked up with my shovel and started shoveling. She was really surprised and said that she was waiting for her son-in-law to come with a plow later in the day, but I told her I could help for now. I shoveled the end of the drive (where the snow plow left a good 3 feet of heavy snow), then just left without even telling her my name. She asked to pay me, but I just told her to have a nice day and left. I can only hope that this put a happy thought into her head and made her day just a little bit better.
Imagine if even a small percentage of the world just randomly thought of other people and not themselves, and did something nice. Just smile at someone. Hold a door open. Give a gift to a stranger who doesn't look happy. Shovel a drive way. Its easy to do.
I'll try to keep this updated about our actions.
Mike and I have been talking about this idea since then. The basic concept is to randomly help someone or make someone's day happier by doing something and doing it totally anonymously. Essentially doing good unto others with no thought of reward. It seems in our present day this is an odd concept for most people.
This past Christmas eve a group of us went to a retirement home that is near my parents house around 10pm with a box of small gifts (they were just fun gifts of chocolate, candles, etc all wrapped up fun) for all the nurses who had to work there overnight. We handed them out without telling the nurses who we were, but just thanked them for working that night away from their families. We got a lot of surprised looks and smiles (and heard that one of the nurses started crying because she was so shocked by our idea), but hopefully made their night a bit better. We spent maybe $40 total for 15 gifts.
I'm not posting this to gratify myself in any way. This is just to get ideas going in whoever reads this. We think the world would be better off if more people just randomly did an act of kindness for no personal gain. I hope to post some of our activities on here when I can think of doing so, just to keep people informed of what could be going on.
What spurred this post was my morning. We had a great snowstorm last night, got over a foot of snow in some places. After shoveling my driveway and getting dani off to work and walking molly, I jumped into my nice new 4 wheel drive and drove around our area (mostly just to play with the 4x4), but I happened to see 2 cars stuck and helped push them out, then saw an older lady shoveling her drive and just walked up with my shovel and started shoveling. She was really surprised and said that she was waiting for her son-in-law to come with a plow later in the day, but I told her I could help for now. I shoveled the end of the drive (where the snow plow left a good 3 feet of heavy snow), then just left without even telling her my name. She asked to pay me, but I just told her to have a nice day and left. I can only hope that this put a happy thought into her head and made her day just a little bit better.
Imagine if even a small percentage of the world just randomly thought of other people and not themselves, and did something nice. Just smile at someone. Hold a door open. Give a gift to a stranger who doesn't look happy. Shovel a drive way. Its easy to do.
I'll try to keep this updated about our actions.
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